Sam’s debts paid off, and at least $2K in the bank.
Both of us having lost 15kg, and sticking to our healthy eating habits.
If not already building/buying by the end of the five years then in the process of doing so.
Cass: To have finished/or be in the middle of uni.
Sam: To be studying metalsmithing, producing own jewelry/art.
To be living in Perth.
Have gone on holidays to Tasmania.
First child on the way when Cass is 29….
…
Now to work out how to achieve it all 
“To create change in your life, the first thing you have to do is dream. Dream of your future. Dream of what you want. Imagine your life as you feel it ought to be lived.” - Coach Yourself; Anthony Grant and Jane Greene
I think that sounds perfectly reasonable. And I mean that. Y’know, that’s around the same time we’ve thought about starting a family, too… just enough in the future it’s no pressure, and we’ll be at a good age. ^_^
Yeah, we thought so too. We didn’t want to aim for something we couldn’t achieve. We just have to put our minds to it now.
I just wish other people would be happy with our decision not to have kids until later.
Well forget them. Y’all need time to work out this whole being married business before you start adding kids to the mix. We’re at the exact same place. Hey, maybe we’ll do this whole kids thing together! ~_^
Seriously, don’t let them bother you. That’s the number one question we get asked– so, when are you having kids? And it gets old, real quick. There’s more to being married than that.
Miss you.
I suppose they figure because we’d done the whole living-together-thing for over a year, that we’d be already settled. But its only been two weeks, we’ve still not really come to terms yet with the fact that we ARE married, I think.
If not kids together, then at least close enough that we’ll be raising kids at the same time
Sort of like, adopted cousins or something ^_^. Everyone else, whether sibling or no, has decided Cass/Sam babies are gonna be their nieces/nephews so you may as well too, lol. Auntie Jo and Jared, nice ring to it.
There’s LOTS more to being married than that. One thing that’s made me a little more irritated by it than I would’ve been otherwise is Facebook. When I was still just “engaged” to Sammeh, the adverts were all tailored towards getting married. The big day, that kind of thing. No that it says I’m married to him all the adverts are about babies or home loans. But most often babies.
Its well shitty.
Miss you too *hugs*